This is the amount outstanding to my lawyer as of today, along with a request for a $20,000 retainer. Combined with the $58,982.06 I have already spent on legal fees, that totals $86,600.93.
This doesn’t include the other incidental costs I have incurred, such as lost work.
I have been separated for the past two and a half years. It has been a fight most of the way.
We are still fighting. I’m… struggling to keep going and make ends meet with the amount of debt I have accumulated. The emotional harm of this is process is ruining my outlook on people and life. It is killing my hope.
I have been paying as I go and may not be able to any longer.
These are my recommendations to you if you are going through a divorce or planning to.
I will update this as I get feedback and questions about it (though I won’t get into any personal details).